EXPLANATION & PRACTICAL APPLICATION OF SDBA PROGRAM & THE RESULTING EFFECT
All of the action and service in the world will still fall short of maximum Affect if ones own self defeating beliefs remain in tact. This being said lets take a closer look at the first and fundamentally all encompassing Arm of our alliance with our simple 12 step program entitled “Self Defeating Beliefs Anonymous” which can be done by anyone in the privacy of their own home or if additional structure is required they can go through the steps at one of our structured creators Rehabilitation centers called “The Lotus Flower” or any other center of rehabilitation that is open to this new and probing self help alternative that penetrates the source rather than addressing its physical manifestation.
Obviously there is an abundance of supporting information the author of this grant proposal would be happy to give in support of this practical adaptation of the traditional 12 step program merged with aspects of many other ancient and contemporary applications. In fact the basic text book of Self Defeating Beliefs Anonymous shares the exact same name of this grant proposal. Considering the constrictions of the grant format much has been omitted from the text which the author of this grant has self published online.
Much in the same manor that Bill W, the founder of Alcoholics Anonymous or napoleon Hill, the author of the Law of Success were not medical professionals nor experts of psychology, neither is the author of this grant proposal and the creator of this program except in the laboratory of his own personal experience. The steps outlined are rather the culmination of over 20 years of personal experience and practical application in his own life. Obviously with your aid we could expand upon these steps and test them on a broader scale to refine them to their optimal level of effectiveness within the consciousness of the human organism.
There have been millions among us who have applied the well known principles of recovery outlined in all traditional 12 step self help programs such as AA and NA as well as SLAA and OA. There are as many 12 step programs are there are glitches in the human condition of which we all perceive ourselves as suffering from. Self Defeating Beliefs Anonymous is nothing more than a logical progression extending to the cause of all these conditions which we have discovered to be nothing more than the EFFECT of a deeper and all encompassing underlying issue.
As members of these 12 step programs already in practice will attest, they have recovered from their specific addiction or to be more accurate, they have sustained prolonged periods of abstinence from the most obvious and destructive manifestation of their core confliction . Once this addictive condition in its most debilitating form has been arrested, those in recovery are afforded an opportunity to examine the underlying conflictions and distortions. Many program members probe deep enough to address the true cause of their issues while others simply remain abstinent from their mechanism of choice. We think it is important to understand that physical abstinence from engaging in ones most blatant addiction is indeed a huge step for humanity that until the 1930's had little or no answer to this devastating condition. all have recovered.
To quote AA's Big Book, yes, “They have solved the drink problem” but what about the Think problem which we have found to be the chief catalyst for any and all self defeating behavior humans engage in? What drives us to seek external distraction and relief in the first place? What was our underlying emotional state of being like long before the first binge, drink, pill, roll of the dice or shopping spree to name but a few. What did we believe about ourselves and the world that we lived in? It is at this point that motivation plays a huge part in determining the outcome of our actions and this holds true for those who seek escape as well as those who are in recovery and focus on length of abstinence and material progress as their chief motivators.
Whenever we don’t feel worthy of a good life it is because we believe there is no love in the life we live. We can easily become lost and not find our way out of the reality that our fear driven belief system has unconsciously created.
We would love for everyone to have an opportunity for individual reflection and self-realization sufficient to bring about a personal shift away from unconscious validation of beliefs to a conscious connection to the fundamental principles of spirituality that define our BEING. Thus creating an individual awakening which cumulatively could create a shift in our collective consciousness By providing people, the opportunity to undergo and complete this practical and simple process it is our belief that we can impede or even reverse any ones fear driven dominion over their own creative nature.
SDBA embodies positive elements of many successful programs and principles of life affirming which are practically applied to a person’s core belief system. This process works deeper to challenge the false which has been accepted as truth and is working subconsciously, usually in a self defeating manor. Our intense approach carries the depth and weight that people long for. It gives anyone the much needed tools for success that they would never give themselves. Our primary aim is to facilitate a permanent shift or correction followed by gradual growth through the application of spiritual principles, creative action and service.
A being is not a "self", it is a power greater than "self" that can affect cause when we are consciously connected to it. The self can manifest its own character constructed of the beliefs it upholds. All addiction is a conditioned dependence to any psychological or physical mechanism in order to produce and control a desired emotional effect. A mechanism is the agency or means by which an effect is produced or a purpose is accomplished.
Please take a minute to review the following examples of common liabilities that our character of self uphold and goes to great lengths to validate at our expense. The also consider the fundamental laws of our own being and consider how your life may be if guided by those laws of love and truth rather than the limiting conditions of self. This takes a little practice
COMMON LIABILITIES OF THE CHARACTER OF SELF
CONTRASTED WITH THE FUNDAMENTAL LAWS OF BEING
SELF: I am an addict.
(SELF BELIEVES IT HAS TO HAVE SOMETHING TO FEEL COMPLETE)
(BEING BUILT OF THE FUNDAMENTAL LAWS OF LOVE AND UNIVERSAL TRUTH)
SELF: I lack compassion for others
(SELF BELIEVES THIS BECAUSE IT LACKS COMPASSION FOR ITSELF)
(BEING POSSESSES THE FUNDAMENTAL PRINCIPLE OF COMPASSION)
SELF: I hold people to double standards
(BEING HAS NO SUCH NEED, ALL BEINGS ARE EQUAL)
SELF: I make events that have little to do with me all about me
(SELF NEEDS TO FEEL IMPORTANT BECAUSE IT IS NOT)
(BEING IS LOVE AND TRUTH AND NEEDS NOTHING TO FEEL IMPORTANT)
SELF: I allow resentment to drive me to destructive self will
(SELF REACTION TO INABILITY TO GIVE AND RECEIVE LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY)
(BEING IS LOVE WITHOUT CONDITIONS, SELF PLACES CONDITIONS ON LOVE)
SELF: I am manipulative
(SELF HAS MANIPULATE EVERYTHING TO ACHIEVE ILLUSION OF LOVE)
(BEING IS LOVE AND DOES NOT UNDERSTAND MANIPULATION)
SELF:I am dishonest
(SELF IS A DISTORTION AND VERY MUCH A LIE WE TELL OURSELVES)
(BEING IS LOVE AND TRUTH AND DOES NOT EVEN RECOGNIZE DISHONESTY)
SELF: I seek attention through self pity
(SELF SEEKS VALIDATION IN THE BELIEF THAT IT IS A VICTIM)
(BEING IS COMPRISED OF SPIRITUAL PRINCIPLES THAT DO NOT ACKNOWLEDGE PITY)
SELF: I am selfish
(SELF IS SELFISH BECAUSE IT IS NOT LOVE AND HAS TO CREATE SUBSTITUTIONS IN ITS PLACE)
(BEING IS LOVE AND NOTHING MORE IS NEEDED WITH LOVE BECAUSE IT IS EVERYTHING)
SELF: I am self seeking
(MY SELF SEEKS, MY BEING IS)
SELF: I lack faith in infinite intelligence
(SELF RUNS OFF ITS BELIEF SYSTEM AS A SUBSTITUTION FOR LOVE AND TRUTH OF BEING)
SELF: I am overly concerned with the opinions of others
(SELF NEEDS TO VALIDATE WHAT IT BELIEVES THROUGH OPINION OF OTHER SELVES)
SELF: I have issues of entitlement
(SELF HAS TO FEEL MORE OR LESS THAN BECAUSE IN EQUALITY IT WOULD CEASE TO EXIST)
(ALL BEINGS ARE EQUAL SOURCES OF LOVE AND TRUTH AND RECOGNIZE EACH OTHER AS SUCH)
SELF: I resent people calling me out on the truth
(SELF AND ITS FALSE BELIEFS CANNOT AFFORD TO BE FOUND OUT)
(BEING IS IN FACT THE TRUTH THAT THE SELF TRIES TO HIDE)
SELF: I use self pity as a form of manipulation
(BEING IS PRINCIPLES SELF IS BELIEF)
SELF: I engage in a battle of egos with others
(SELF IS EGO AND BATTLES OTHER EGO FOR VALIDATION OF EXISTENCE)
(BEING NEVER FIGHTS BECAUSE IT'S COMPRISED OF FUNDAMENTAL LAWS OF LOVE AND TRUTH)
SELF: I take advantage of people when I am in a place of power
(SELF AFRAID OF LOSING OR NOT GETTING, BEING IS ULTIMATE POWER AND NEEDS NOTHING)
SELF: I make people my higher power
(SELF MAKES ANOTHER SELF ITS HIGHER POWER, BEING IS ULTIMATE POWER OF LOVE)
SELF: I am controlling
(BEING IS TRUE POWER, SELF HAS NO POWER SO MUST CONTROL THE SELF IN OTHERS)
SELF: I lack trust in others
(MY SELF IS UNTRUSTWORTHY AS ARE THE SELVES OF OTHERS DISCONNECTED FROM BEING)
SELF: I am a people pleaser
(SELF MANIPULATES TO GET VALIDATION, BEING IS LOVE)
SELF: I compromise my integrity to get what I want
(SELF COMPROMISES PRINCIPLES OF BEING TO VALIDATE ITSELF)
SELF: I have relationships with other addicts
(SELF SEEKS ITSELF BY ATTRACTING PERFECT MIRRORS (OTHERS) TO VALIDATE ITS BELIEFS)
SELF: I confuse ADDICT relationships for true LOVE
(SELF NEEDS TO FEEL COMPLETE SO IT USES OTHERS AS A DRUG TO FEEL WHOLE)
SELF: I put myself in jail for profit
(SELF VALIDATING BELIEF THAT IT IS NOT WORTHY)
SELF: I am not self supporting through my own contributions(SELF VALIDATING BELIEF THAT IT IS A VICTIM)
SELF: I make idle threats
(POWERLESS SELF TRYING TO PROTECT ITS ILLUSIONS FROM PERCEIVED THREATS)
SELF: I have unrealistic expectations of other people
(SELF DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY THEREFORE EXPECTS OTHERS TO DO THIS FOR THEM)
SELF: I profited off the misery of others
(SELF NEEDS TO FEEL BETTER THAN AND HAVE ILLUSION OF CONTROL)
(BEING PROFITS IN THE ONLY WAY RECOGNIZED BY INFINITE INTELLIGENCE BY GIVING AND RECEIVING LOVE)
SELF: I am in denial of my true motives behind my actions
(SELF DISTORTS ITS MOTIVATION TO REMAIN IN CONTROL)
(BEING NEVER LOST CONTROL)
SELF: I take vengeful actions based on my fear driven thoughts
(SELF REACTS TO PROTECT WHAT IT BELIEVES)
SELF: I blame others for things that are my responsibility
(SELF IS UNCONSCIOUS CREATION THAT WILL NEVER TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY)
(BEING IS TRUTH AND LOVE AND NEVER IRRESPONSIBLE BECAUSE IT IS CONSCIOUS)
SELF: I create circumstances where I can be hurt and let down
(SELF SEEKS VALIDATION FOR ONE OF ITS BELIEFS WHICH ARE DEFEATING)
(BEING SEEKS AVENUES OF CREATIVE EXPRESSION FOR TRUTH AND LOVE)
SELF: I live in denial about my fears
(BEING DOES NOT UNDERSTAND FEAR BECAUSE IT IS LOVE)
SELF: I imagine fear which make my life unmanageable
(SELF IS RUN OFF OF FEAR AND PROJECTION WHICH IT CANNOT MANAGE BY ITSELF)
BEING IS THE MANAGER GUIDED BY FUNDAMENTAL PRINCIPLES OF LOVE AND TRUTH)
SELF: I have an inability to set healthy boundaries
(SELF DEFEATING BELIEF THAT ONE CANNOT BE ACCOUNTABLE)
(BEING PROVIDES A STRUCTURE OF FUNDAMENTAL PRINCIPLES TO SET BOUNDARIES WITH GRACE)
SELF: I don’t believe that I deserve a good life
(SELF DEFEATING BELIEF BASED ON ITS OWN EXPERIENCE OF MISMANAGING OUR LIFE)
(BEING IS LOVE AND DOES CREATE A LIFE WITH LOVE AND TRUTH BUT WE LIMIT ITS ABILITY)
SELF: I confuse kindness for weakness
(SELF DISTORTING LOVE FROM OTHERS INTO THREAT TO BE FEARED TO STAY SEPARATE AND IN CONTROL)
SELF: I feel exempt from the rules of establishment
(SELF FEELS ENTITLED WHICH IS REALLY DEFEATING TO ONES OWN EVOLUTION)
(BEING IS UNAFFECTED BY RULES BECAUSE RULES APPLY TO THE SELF AND ITS MISMANAGEMENT)
SELF: I lack respect for people in authority
(SELF MAINTAINS BELIEF THAT CAN DO BETTER THAN THOSE IN AUTHORITY WHILE DOING NOTHING)
SELF: I am always looking for a short cut
(SELF NEEDS IMMEDIATE GRATIFICATION TO ACHIEVE ITS ILLUSION OF WHOLENESS)
(BEING PROVIDES STRUCTURE OF FUNDAMENTAL BELIEFS TO AID IN OUR CONSTRUCTIVE GOALS)
SELF: I am uncomfortable stating what I am worth
(SELF BELIEVES IT IS WORTHLESS BECAUSE IT IS NOTHING)
(BEING CAN AID SELF IN BEING VALUABLE BUT ONLY AS A INSTRUMENT OF LOVE AND TRUTH)
SELF: I demand to be saved
(SELF BELIEVES IT IS A VICTIM WHICH IT IS BUT ONLY OF ITSELF)
(BEING SAVED AND REUNIFYING WITH THE FUNDAMENTAL PRINCIPLES OF BEING ARE THE SAME)
SELF: I am afraid to be wrong
(BECAUSE SELF IS A LIE THAT CANNOT AFFORD TO BE FOUND OUT)
(BEING IS BEYOND THE MAN MADE REALMS OF RIGHT AND WRONG, IT IS TRUTH AND LOVE)
SELF: I don not value good advice
(SELF TAKES SUCH ADVICE AS A THREAT TO ITS BELIEFS)
(BEING CAN PROVIDE SELF WITH GUIDANCE OF LOVE AND TRUTH WHICH IS THE BEST ADVICE THERE IS)
THE 12 STEPS OF SELF DEFEATING BELIEFS ANONYMOUS
STEP ONE:
Admitted we had become powerless over our self defeating beliefs and our lives had become unmanageable
STEP TWO:
Came to see that we are in fact a power greater than our "self" and its beliefs
STEP THREE:
Made a decision to turn our "self" and its defeating beliefs over to the care of our being as we understand it
STEP FOUR:
Made a searching and fearless inventory of our "self" and the beliefs, both positive and negative, that it upholds
STEP FIVE:
Admitted to our being, our self and another person the exact nature of our condition
STEP SIX:
Were entirely ready to remove those beliefs which are self defeating through conscious contact with our being, practical application of spiritual principles and positive action
STEP SEVEN:
Humbly asked our being to help us dissolve those beliefs which are self defeating in nature.
STEP EIGHT:
Made a list of all those whom we have negatively affected and became willing to make amends to them all
STEP NINE:
Made direct amends to such people whenever further harm would not result
STEP TEN:
Continued to take personal inventory and when self defeating belief validation occurs, take measures to promptly correct it.
STEP ELEVEN:
Sought the practical application of spiritual principles, positive action and service to improve our conscious contact with our own being; asking only to see ourselves through eyes of love and truth rather than fear and self defeating belief.
STEP TWELVE:
Having reunified with our being as a result of these steps we carry this message to others and practice these principles in all of our affairs
THE GUIDING PRINCIPLES OF SELF DEFEATING ANONYMOUS:
Taking action, creative or practical in nature
Application of spiritual principles
Mediation and prayer
Being of service to ourselves and the group
IDENTIFICATION OF MOTIVATION BEHIND OUR THOUGHTS AND ACTIONS....
SELF DEFEATING BELIEFS ANONYMOUS
ADDRESSING THE CAUSE RATHER THAN THE EFFECT
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